BookMarks #123: Robinson Crusoe

Title: Robinson Crusoe

Author: Daniel Defoe

Genre: Fiction

Published: 1719

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Robinson Crusoe – it is one of the most familiar tales in the English language, the story of a man who gets ship-wrecked and stranded on a remote island alone, how he manages to build his own little world there and then finally after a two decade long near-incarceration is able to return to his home. This is the abridged version on the story that I was familiar with (In fact it is considered to be amongst the first novels in English). But the actual book goes into deeper details of his life on the island and follows it up with more adventures across the world, till finally Crusoe in his seventies decided to settle down at home.

While I was familiar with the story, reading the full version in detail left a different impression. While I understand the times were different at the time of publication (early 18th century), still the sheer amount of bigotry, slave trade, human trafficking, racism, religious supremacy which features in the book is simply unbelievable by modern standards. There is no equality, natives are described as savages and barbaric (of course the cannibalism doesn’t help). But it’s not just restricted to them – there is hardly a good word in general for anyone who is not English or Christian – whether the Spaniards, Mongols, Chinese, Russians – no one is spared. Everyone else’s customs are against God. Conversion is a recurring theme in the book. Crusoe even goes on to destroy the idols and places of worship of others!

No wonder, what we read as kids is a very mild version which just puts in the adventure part and removes the rest.

And then there is the spelling – shewed (for showed), hallooed (for calling out), and more. Even the words have entirely different meanings to the modern usage.

A couple of lines which stood out:

• to-day we love what to-morrow we hate; to-day we seek what to-morrow we shun; to-day we desire what to-morrow we fear; nay, even tremble at the apprehensions of.
• attempting to teach others is sometimes the best way of teaching ourselves.

Reading this version gave a totally different impression of what was a simple familiar story!

Previously on BookMarks: The Fine Art of Small Talk 

BookMarks #122: The Fine Art of Small Talk

Title: The Fine Art of Small Talk

Author: Debra Fine

Genre: Non-fiction, Self-help

Published: 1997

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A book targeting the introverts, who find it difficult to make and continue conversations in informal settings. Some of the techniques suggested to be a good conversationalist are:

• Express empathy
• Greet people warmly, make eye contact and smile
• Be first to say hello
• Use the person's name and correctly
• Show an interest in others
• Dig deeper
• Be a good listener and an active one
• Stop being an adviser
• Find connections to continue the conversation
• Don't kill conversation
• Don't just question

And most importantly Practice, in effect Fake it till it becomes a second nature.

While the tips are there some of the content is repetitive. Some of the opening lines suggested can border on the rude. And the author makes the assumption that the other person is also mutually interested in a conversation!

Overall, an okayish read. The nook can be much shorter and feels more like a dragged out Ted Talk kind of presentation. 

Previously on BookMarks: Train To Pakistan